Im not even close to 13 yet, and I naturally tought myself about how to masturbate when i was like... 8!!! I really want to stop because I hate it, but i cant. i cant stop looking at other sites that i shouldnt be looking at, so someone please help me! i really wanna stop! i dont give me an answer like 'its good for you, why quit?' or 'jesus thinks u should' cause i dont care about jesus! its espically bad for me cause jews dont masturbate! please help!
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I am a Christian, and I know you aren't, but maybe I can offer help. I will not lie, if you do not believe that following God leads to true happiness, you will probably never stop masturbating. Here you go:
I did it and it isn't too difficult. Further, you will experience a peace of mind that will be worth your weight in gold. (For starters, a faith in Jesus and a desire to give it up for the right reason should be the foundation.) I wanted to give it up because the media implanted a lust for women far out of the ordinary and I was going insane because I wanted more than one woman (most are like this, hence so much cheating and divorce). My time was spent feeling sorry for myself and thinking of suicide - boohoo for me. I wanted a woman in proportion to the frequency of masturbating and mental sexual dreaming and I lost my focus in many areas of life. So here is what I did...
If I thought about a woman twenty times an hour, I would block out just a few of those thoughts if I could not block them all. At first it was like giving up a drug. But soon momentum took over and I could go for longer and longer periods.
Step one: block out as many thoughts as you can of arousing images until you can go all day without thinking of it even once - like myself (keeping in mind I am in my twenties and naturally muscular due to high levels of testosterone - If I could do it anyone can). This will include turning away from stimulating outward images such as most of what you see on television, the attire of many young women, and the general media.
Step two: to make this process easier get involved with some sort of activity: exercise, work-related things, etc. It might be tough to get started, but soon you will be mentally absorbed into your work and before you know it you have defeated your thoughts, have gained more control over yourself and are finally exhibiting true strength.
In addition to these things: do not listen to anyone telling you it is okay to masturbate, that you are an idiot, that you are not a normal man, etc. It is not normal and after all, you feel ashamed, correct? Keep in mind that misery loves company and so do losers and the self-defeated, as their pride cannot stand the thought of someone being stronger or above their faults. Deep inside they hate when people even consider giving it up.
Most men are weak and we live in a sexually starved world where sex is "celebrated" far too much (actually our generation's "celebration" is just our pride getting in the way of admitting it is a problem). Most men would screw some guys wife and destroy a marriage and mess up kids head simply because they are controlled by their sexual desire like a drug addict - they hurt others with no conscience to get their "fix" no different than a crack addict.
Realize that you are in for a battle because of the media, most of your peers, and the world around you, but it can be done and the reward is more peace, self-control, and contentment than most people could only dream of.
Finally, sex is not wrong and avoiding masturbation, sexual thoughts, and the like, will cause you to be ultra sensitive when you do have sex. When you do finally find a good woman, a wife, your sexual experience will be out of this world and you will not get sick of your wife simply because you will not desensitize yourself by partaking in so many forms of it like most people do, leading to the failure of many relationships due to becoming "bored" of the same person.
Good luck, or even better - God Bless!
You should like smush clay or something to help you stop
You'll enjoy it oneday
Cut it out! Get laid or something.
ok first off, people from all religions masturbate..theres nothing wrong with it.
you shouldn't be on age inappropriate sites..maybe ask your parents to put a filter on your computer..or tell them that they should do it. that could keep you away from that. talk to your dad also about why..when you tell him what you've been looking at then he'll mos def do it.
maybe instead of masturbating once or twice here and there go once for a long time until you can't anymore. that might help you do it less because you're getting rid of all that whatever it is in one session instead of many.
..idk other than that
You "tought" yourself about how to masturbate when u was like... 8!!! Come on junior, quit trying to pull our leg. You can't even spell "taught". No man can have an orgasm when he's only 8. I know because I tried when I was nine and it tickled so bad I had to stop. I couldn't ejaculate until I was about 12 and believe me I was full of hormones. And who told you Jews don't masturbate? Thats like saying; Does a wild bear poop in the woods? Is the Pope a Catholic? "I'm going to tell your mother on you boy!!" Cause, "you-a-lying"!
Don鈥檛 be lonely and divert you mind.
masturbate all day long until it gets all sore and nasy ant then you wont want to do it again.
Jews don't masturbate? Although its true that most Jewish teachings discourage masturbation - god is not Saddam Hussein and HE KNOWS THAT WE ARE HUMAN and as long as you try to be moral and kind you will be OK, so take it easy, will you?
Watching porn for Jews is another issue, the cleanliness of your heart is very important in our religion, and its something you should stop. And YES You CAN help yourself with that: Ask your parents to install a filteration system for your computer (you can do it online: thejnet.com), i use one myself at and in the office to keep me from temptation.
(If you don't want your parents to know that you were visiting bad sites, tell them that something very filthy and shocking"popped up" and bothers you day and night and they must put a filter ASAP - this might also be a good excuse for you to ask for a therapist without them getting suspicious!)
Keep trying and may Hashem bless you
instead of rubbing yourself try a calmer methiod like humping something like a pillow. good luck
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